The Shift

“Don’t die with your music still in you”...

Dr. Wayne Dyer's new movie, The Shift, is one of the best movies I've seen in a long time. It is one of those movies that make you take a closer look at yourself and your life. It provokes thought--making you ask yourself the big, meaningful questions about your character and the direction of your life. If you liked the movies The Secret and You Can Heal Your Life, you will love this movie. Want to make a shift in your life? It's easier than you think. Start by watching this movie and then tell yourself (and really mean it) that you deserve to live a more meaningful, abundant life.

Discover Savannah!

Discover historic Savannah, Georgia with your old girlfriends or hang out with new ones.

Established in 1733, this vibrant jewel of the south is known for it's southern charm, hospitality, historic architecture and rich history. Savannah was awarded "Top 10 American Travel Destination by Conde' Nast Travel Magazine, "Top 25 Cities for the Arts" by American Style Magazine and a host of other distinctions.

This event is scheduled as a day trip. Since Savannah is approximately 4-5 hours from Atlanta, we're going to have to get an early start.

• Board the luxury motor coach at 6:00AM in/near Atlanta (exact location TBD)
  
• Continental breakfast aboard the motor coach
  
• Enjoy the "girlfriend experience" bonding with other members on the way to Savannah
  
• Tour scenic downtown Savannah
  
• Shop and hang out at Savannah's City Market
  
• Visit Thomas Kinkade and other area art galleries
  
• Lunch at Paula Deen's "The Lady & Sons" Restaurant
  
• Board the motor coach at 5:00PM back to Atlanta (exact location TBD)
  
• On the return trip, enjoy more girlfriend-boding time or wind down from the long day
  
• Arrive back in Atlanta at approximately 10:30PM
  

The ticket price is $71 and does not include lunch at The Lady & Sons or shopping expense. Please send payments via Paypal to the email address [masked] (this email address is for payments only, send non-payment related messages to the email address below). The due date for all payments is June 10 as the motor coach company requires the bus be paid in full at least two weeks before the trip.

As it gets closer to the trip, I'll send out a full itinerary that will include more specifics and actual times. If you have any questions regarding how to pay with Paypal or any other concerns, please don't hesitate to email me at gethelp(at)pamperingu.com.

I'm looking forward to discovering Savannah with you. Let's get this party started--on the road!

IMPORTANT NOTE: This premier travel event is being organized and hosted by Pampering U, Inc. and Girlfriends EnTourAge Travel Club. The cost of this trip is calculated based on departure from the Atlanta, GA area.

Why Are You Here?

"Pay attention...the Universe will invariably lead you to bits of reality that will help you unlock the secrets to your soul and personal success" ~ L.B. Turner-1959

Why are you here? It is not an accident or mere coincidence. You are in this space at this exact moment in time for a reason. If you take a long look at yourself you may be able to discover a deeper meaning to your existence--your life's purpose or destiny. There are clues all around you. Notice how you feel when you interact with certain types of people or animals. Take a walk in nature, sit in the stillness of a quiet room, meditate or listen music. Notice what truly brings you joy and you could discover the answer to the meaning and profound purpose for your life.

Click Happiness

Happiness is not a just feeling--if you desire, allow and share it with others, happiness can become a way of life. I recently found ClickHappiness.com, an entire website dedicated to happiness. There are happiness tip and quotes, gifts, health and lifestyle resources, greeting cards...little things that can fill your life with joy. Visit ClickHappiness.com find something that inspires happiness in your life.

A Celebration of Life

In a few days I will celebrate my 5oth birthday! I know many women will read this post and cringe. They will not believe that I am shouting to the world that I am half a century old. Well, that is exactly what I'm doing.

I choose to see my 50 years of experience as a valuable asset instead of a liability. I choose not to define myself and my self worth based on a social system that punishes people for gaining age, wisdom and experience. I choose to acknowledge the past, embrace the present and anticipate the future (especially the new benefits I'm going to get through my AARP membership...lol...that's right, I'm a card-carrying member now) as I would not be who I am without my experiences!

As I continue my journey toward eternal happiness and achieving my life's destiny of love and service to others, I'm taking a moment to celebrate this milestone in a life-long filled with beauty, peace and gratitude. Now pass the Cabernet and let's party! :>).

Namaste!

Girlfriends EnTourAge Spa Adventure 2009

Girlfriends EnTourAge Glitz & Glamour Spa Adventure
Labor Day Weekend 2009

Stressed out from the hectic pace of life? Have fun, get re-energized, and connect with your girlfriends during the Girlfriends EnTourAge Glitz and Glamour Spa Adventure, Labor Day Weekend, September 3-6, 2009.

Invite your sister, mother, daughter, or girlfriend and meet new girlfriends during a women-centric trip of a lifetime that begins with a whirlwind night in the glitz of Las Vegas then offers three days of pampering, adventure, gourmet foods, and relaxation at a premier destination spa - Red Mountain Resort and Spa in St. George, Utah.

Only 40 spaces available. Book your space today!

Visit Girlfriends EnTourAge or call us a 1-888-210-4462 to learn more.

Note: This premier travel event is being organized and hosted by Pampering U, Inc. and Girlfriends EnTourAge Travel Club.

Forgiveness

"Forgiveness is the fragrance the violet sheds upon the heal that has crushed it" ~ Mark Twain

I listened to a radio show about domestic violence last night entitled "why men beat women." Guests of the show included abusers and their victims. The abusers explained the abuse from their points of view, why they abused, how they were rehabilitated and who they are today as a result of the rehabilitation. The victims discussed how the abuse impacted their lives and the steps they took toward rehabilitation. It was clear that both the abusers and the victims realized that in order to fully heal they would have to forgive their abusers as well as forgive themselves.

"There is no statute of limitations on forgiveness. I cease to limit my life by forcing life to conform to my limited understanding. In the presence or absence of explanation, I forgive myself and I forgive others." ~ Attitude is Everything Cards by Keith Harrell

When I think back on the events of my life, my heart warms at the thought that I have been blessed to see how powerful forgiveness can be. I realize that absolute forgiveness shifts your life's energy from feelings of victimization and helplessness to an energy of happiness and empowerment. It says that you love and trust yourself and the universe to attract the life you deserve. I am eternally grateful for the difference "forgiveness" has made in my life.

Who do you need to forgive--a parent, sibling, friend, co-worker, business partner, yourself? Don't waste another precious second. Create a positive, loving energy shift in your life--forgive and release those feelings of anger, hurt and judgment...do it now!

The Company We Keep

With whom are you spending your time? Do these people respect and honor you? Do they encourage, support & uplift you? Do they add value to your life? The company you keep can be a direct indication of how you view yourself. What are you telling the world about yourself based on the company you are keeping?

The Power of Grace

When I think of the word "Grace" I think of elegance, confidence, unselfishness, service and yes, I think of power. When we live with grace, we are conscious about the confidence and power that goes along with being in a state of grace. We are careful not view people and situations with judgment and we do not allow ourselves to be defined by the standards and judgment of others. We accept that we do not have to fight, bully or impose our will on others to be heard and we move through life with as much softness, love and light as possible. Knowing who we are, loving ourselves and others and being of service to those less fortunate can promote a lifetime of unwavering faith, power and grace.

Happiness Attracts Abundance

Today, I read the statement "happy people earn $750,000+ more in their lifetime than others" and smiled to myself. I've known for some time that happiness attracts abundance because it's been my story my entire adult life.

I've always been blessed to have abundance in many areas of my life; relational, financial, emotional and physical (yep, even got up to a size 16 at one point in my life...lol). I sometimes questioned God and asked why, of all people, did He spare me from the fate of some of my friends and family. It's not that I wanted to suffer, I just wondered why I was spared. I'm really not sure. The only explanation that makes sense to me is that I am here to spread happiness, love and light so I graciously accept my assignment. Guess it's just one of life's delicious little mysteries and I'm so grateful.

Don't get me wrong, I have challenges just like everybody else but when I'm faced with obstacles or disappointments, I acknowledge the feelings and make a conscious decision about how I will deal the "stuff." When tears or grief are in order--and sometimes they are--I allow myself time to work through it. I set a time frame for me to get over whatever it is--usually 36 hours and after that time I pick myself up and then CHOOSE TO BE HAPPY! For me it's just that simple.

I don't know about you but unhappiness is not an option for me--it's someplace I visit from time to time (because I'm human) but I chose not to live there. I'm much more interested in attracting my share of the abundance our universe has to offer. If you're ever faced with a choice, choose happiness and you'll soon get your share as well.

Low-Hanging Fruit

We tend to think in broad terms—we’re accustomed to looking at the big picture: what we’ll be when we grow up, what we’ll do once we finish college, who we’ll marry, etc. While dreaming and setting goals are good, we often miss out on the magic of the present moment when we’re focused on the future.

Take a few moments to go deep within yourself. Feel where you are at this very moment. Give yourself credit and be grateful for the accomplishments you have already made. Acknowledge your greatness and uniqueness. Identify and use the low-hanging fruit currently available to you (ideas, creativity, skills, personality, contacts, etc.) to see what you can do to catapult yourself to the next level. Set shorter-term goals if necessary and use resources you have at your disposal right now to continue on your path to greater happiness and personal success.